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Posted by 6ftazdoofushead at 11:22PM, 29/Jun/09.
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knew that would get your attention you dirty dirty people!! The question I have is this.....

How long should you wait until you have sex wih someone for the first time...esp if you really like them?? I have made the mistake of doing it on the first date... n it has really fucked things up....so what is the general concensus??

I know some will say it all depends on the person...but I want stories people!!! I want smut! I want gossip! I want dirt! lol

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arrowPosted 11:23PM, 29/Jun/09
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doof,
i'm only new to the whole dating scene since separating with my wife/lover of 20 yrs!
i met a girl recently for coffee and we got on like a house on fire!!
met for dinner later that week and had the best earth rocking, toe curling sex on and off for 5 hours. since then have caught up again repested the efforts......you go girl as we both loved it
if it feels right go with your instincts.

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arrowPosted 12:05AM, 30/Jun/09
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6ft - Shanno is rite - it really depends how you feel and how it flows. To me it is about that connection you have with the person - sometimes it is rite and other times you may to see them a time or 2 more to feel they r rite!

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arrowPosted 11:57AM, 30/Jun/09
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I think it depends on what you want or where if anywhere you want it to go after the bedroom (back of pub, lane way, park, hotel room, kitchen bench, spa, under resturant table) fun has happened. If you want more of the same go hard fun with that person, then hey first date is fine,(is it a date if you are only there for sex?). If you want it to be a one night thing, then yep first meet again...... BUT, if you want a long lasting meaningful relationship, with romance, love and touchy feely sex....... wait till you are married (well I am sure that is what my mummy would say).......
When it is right it is right, no matter what the outcome as long as you are both complely spent and satisfied. Should that be after first meet bonus, otherwise keep going till you are.. . . . .

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arrowPosted 11:58AM, 30/Jun/09
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If you're after more than just a fling, then make them wait. If they are really interested in more, they'll persist. I believe its that simple.

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arrowPosted 12:13PM, 30/Jun/09
 
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Ok, i'll elabborate a little further:
If you are looking for more than just a fling (i'll presume you are), make them wait for a number of reasons. If they are serious about wanting more, they'll be patient. Is a patient person on your checklist? Also, if you wait, you'll get to know them better, all the while hopefully ticking more things off your checklist. Conversely they might display traits that you are NOT a fan of - such as stalker, or the type of person who might leave a nice big steaming shit on your chest. It would be better to find that out before you hook up with them or open your heart to them....no?

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yeah but but but....i have the willpower of a hungry 3 year old infront of a jar of cookies!!!!

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arrowPosted 11:53PM, 1/Jul/09
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It just depends on the chemistry, and I don't think waiting needs to makes a difference to whether things work out long term or not. I waited for my ex wife... and didn't for my current g/f - guess which is going better?

Flings have gone both ways too - and one lady I had fun with on the first night I soon nicknamed "stalker" so she definitely didn't have a problem with making something serious out of a first night fling!

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I agree with Nux lots of getting to know u chats texts calls meets before you jump in and find that he isnt all the things you imagined and fantasised about. Sometimes waiting for someone we really want makes the first time you make love even more intense and amazing.

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arrowPosted 4:36PM, 30/Jun/09
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hmmmm simple...I just aint gunna do anything....I'll be single without complications!!! lol

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arrowPosted 11:48PM, 1/Jul/09
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it is indeed....makes the cold nights hard to bear but hey...thats what an electric blanket is for lol

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arrowPosted 11:51PM, 1/Jul/09
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