Posted by 6ftazdoofushead at 2:20PM, 1/Feb/10.
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I am not a strong woman physically...and to dump my boyfriend because I didnt like his violent behaviour and managing to walk away without getting my head punched in I think I did pretty bloody well.
To the ladies here....DONT EVER put up with shit....be strong enough to end it and walk away...but dont make my mistake and do it alone....have backup in a car...
I knew it was going to end....afterall he punched my cat in the head cuz she bit him...that pissed me off...then she got run over the next day and died....I broke it off....but got lonely...n thought I would give it another go....well just wasnt going to happen...he still wanted to carry on like a 15yr old so I waited til he was back in town from work and went over and calmly sat down. He talked for 20mins over n over about everything that has happened in thepast 4 months since we first met and got together....and well when I asked if I could say something he told me to wait until my turn...ok fine....well my turn came around...and this is what I said....
"A conversation betten 2 people goes back and forth...the past 20 mins of you stating your case is like a bloody debate...and well I will state my case..hang on I dont need to justify myself to you or to anyone...I dont like your violent behaviour..its who you are and you have said that and I cant accept it, and I dont want to be around it."
And then it started....he stood up and started carrying on about me judging his past and so I stood up and got my gear to go....then he started yelling and waving his arms...I told him to grow up...he didnt like that...puffed up like a dog ready to attack...arms tense like he was going to attack yelling at the top of his lungs for me to fuck off...I told him to just fucking grow up and then he did the whole finger in your face about an inch away yelling and spit flying at the same time....I wanted to fucking punch him then n there for being so fucking pathetic...I thought about it n thought....hmmm no...I dont want to be beaten to a pulp....so I walked....I made it home on adrelanine....packed up my car, fully locked my house and deadbolted everything...he still had my key but not the key to everything...and saw the police and asked them to check on my house after he threatened to smash everything....and stayed with a mate for the night....and cried....and cried and cried...out of the sheer fear he would've hurt me...and the fact I let him so close to me in my life and my children....
Dont do it...as soon as you see red flags end it...they wont change, it wont get better and you may not be able to walk away unharmed....you deserve better...because scum like that have place place in society....
Posted 2:36PM, 1/Feb/10
