Posted by AngelicAngel at 3:29AM, 4/Jul/07.
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Ok here goes i have never done a blog before  but as they say give something a go u never know.

Ok im an over 40's Mum with teenage children which i have living with me,

I pose a question to  a lot of the males on  this site why is it as soon as a female says shes over 40 and has kids at home  they are no longer interested in meeting let alone talking, We all know a lot of the dads only see their kids one in 2 weekends some  are single dads but  as single parents out time is limited  as we work and  bring up kids and run homes.

I  just get so sick to death of the negativity that some males  have towards a female that cant run when they snap their fingers and those ones who expect sex for a coffee or an innocent lunch or dinner to chat to see if u may be  compatable but i suppose  thats al la lot are after  nothing more.

I read Digitalmess and Busy Bee i think her nic was ( now if i have it wrong please dont get mad) after reading those blogs it inspired me to write one now thats rare like entering the photo competions.

Like Busy bee said  a male she was with had no idea she was depressed and needed him more than ever when her dad died and  her male friend shoud have been more supportive towards her but he wasnt which is really sad.

As Dig said in his blog we all have things in closets we dont  want to reveal or some we may  but maybe in a lot of cases  some are to hurtful to bring up again  so they stay dead in the closet.

Yes some single  parents  have the ideal life they seek but some of the others dont  and when because ur over 40  and continually put down  about age coz ur over 35 now guys ffs please explain what this bloody 35 yr old shit is god  women over 40 are just as good if not better and most times dont have babies or young children around their feet  more freedom so what confuses me is why the age cut off.

Guys u will probably find that the over 40's  mums arent looking for a husband or a replacement  dad for their kids and are  more independant in lots of ways and obly seek companionship not the wedding ring or the live in 24/7 thing.

The thing is  a lot of  people out there  only judge the book by the cover they dont  want to take the time to read the pages to get to know the real person and by doing that they miss out on someone who could be exactly what they are looking for, Looks and a body of a 18 yr old arent everything guys its whats inside that counts the most and how she treats u as a person.

And also guys when a female has her profile written  so plainly please read it if u dont fit what shes looking for well dont u think ur wasting your time and hers  contacting her to get a sorry ur not what im looking for email back think before u do it.

Anyway enough of  my having my say here,

Congrats to Oodlum  on his site but geez hun get a lot more males in chat  it would be nice  lol.

Cheers have a gr8 day or nite stay safe .....:-)