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Whats a guy to do?

Posted by gazza at 3:13PM, 27/Aug/07.
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I thought i might jot some thoughts down here to clear my head. I will just give you a little background first. My wife and i had been having trouble for years but with kids it was just easier to put up with it. Then by chance an internet connection as part of my job meant i could surf while i worked. Woohoo. Anyways early last year i met a chick who offered me what i had missed from my wife for years and i took it with both hands and indulged repeatedly. Around August of last year it all ended . No great loss i felt as there are always others out there and i thought i might try and sort things out again at home. Around xmas of last year the same chick rang me out of the blue and said come over i want some. I was there in quick time only to be told what a low life i was and how disgusting i was. Learning from this when she called again some months ago i said no thanks. This upset her as no one  ever says no so she rang my wife and dropped me in. After much discussion and promises to change my wife and i are still together. Problem is she is still calling , threatening to expose me . Any ideas?

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Belinda
HI Gaza,
A bit late for the comment but I thought it was interesting. If this girl tries again, you can say to your wife that she is a women who has been stalking you at work and is vindictive has a mental illness, wants to brake up your marriage so she can have you all to yourself hopefully your wife will believe you and not her, then I would put a restrain order on her. Next time you have an affair get another personal mobile that your wife doesn`t have and do not tell them where you live. If you are going to lie, keep your two lives completely separate, that way no one gets hurt, not that I am endorsing affairs

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ummmm arsenic !?!

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mercedes76
sooooo funny just what i needed right this minute thanks T&T, so into any more trouble gazza ;)

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gazza
Hey Merc, i have been on my best behavior of late and its quite a weird experience.

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Gazza, Personally u dont deserve any sympathy u did it now u deal with it cheating on a wife or husband is something people should think hard about before doing it can cause horrible circumstances like it did for u.
There is always a consequence for the actions we choose so basically im saying u f'd up so u have u to blame no one else ...
And before anyone writes a comment saying im a negative hard bitch well yes when it comes to infidelity i am.
Cheers

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arrowPosted 10:48PM, 17/Sep/07
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gazza
Thanks for your comments and criticisms. Yes i played the music and will be dancing to the tune for awhile to come. So far she has left us alone except for a text message some weeks back that i chose to ignore and not reply to. Planning from now to put some distance between her and us and get the rest of my life sorted.
Cheers garry

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Digitalmess
shake what ya mamma gave you :)..... good to hear... hope you do get back on track

Cheers Dig

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arrowPosted 6:39PM, 13/Sep/07
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Supaduppa (Profile paused)
Really constructive comments here...As if its your business what he is doing....He didnt asked if its right what he is doing or did, i guess he will make this experience himself. However, being neutral and not putting the nose in his buisness would be something...

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Hey he wanted our opinion if Gazza doesn't like it he can always remove our comments.......

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Supaduppa (Profile paused)
Hey...yeah he wanted our opinion about the chick he had the affair with and cant get rid of her...Not our opinion about that he was cheating on his wife...;-) I guess he is old enough to know that this wasnt the nicest thing he did...But apart from that, mmh, it isnt really our or someone elses buisness. Thats just my personal opinion

Gympie, 4570, QLD -- Blog entries: 3 -- Comments: 34

arrowPosted 5:59PM, 5/Sep/07
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Digitalmess
If you cheat then face the music that plays you choose the track now dance...

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arrowPosted 7:38PM, 3/Sep/07
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mercedes76
Hey Gazza you put yourself out there, cheated on your wife and promised to change shit ever heard the saying can't have your cake and eat it too.....? Expose you? You are sooo exposed, good luck in the never ending search for VALIDATION.

Widgee, 4570, QLD -- Blog entries: 29 -- Comments: 165

arrowPosted 7:36PM, 3/Sep/07
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Supaduppa (Profile paused)
Mmh, seems that you catched here a psychological messy of a chick...Yeah i know, doesnt help. I think there is not much you can do with her except telling her to leave you alone. If that doesnt work, make try to get the calls reported and you can reach in a DVO for stalking and blackmailing and stuff like that. There are some phone lines which register the number called and you just need evidence of that. Hard way and shouldnt be really necessarily. But, if she is not checking out the fact to leave you alone, or just ingoring at all doesnt work, (maybe change of phone number?) thats the only way you can deal with her if you really get stressed out by that.

Gympie, 4570, QLD -- Blog entries: 3 -- Comments: 34

arrowPosted 10:52PM, 2/Sep/07
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