Posted by nux at 11:33AM, 9/Jun/10.
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G'day,
Sometimes i see male members gettting discouraged by not getting any "action" as they call it, and they have negative comments to say about the site because they are not having any luck with the ladies. I believe most of these guys have the wrong aproach, most seem to think "we're all here to hook up, so whats the problem?". I also see women getting disgusted with guys and their "direct" aproach.
I hope this blog will serve 2 purposes:
1) the ladies can express themselves (vent) on what they expect from a bloke to get their attention, and what turns them off.
2) Guys, you can read and pick up some tips.
I'll start by adding my personal view on what might be a good tip: Dudes, dont go into chat and imediately start whispering chicks with "hello, have you got a cam". Have some tact, try having a bit of a conversation with members before making any suggestion of sex, or even camming. These women might indeed be interested in a fling, but MOST of them will be turned off by guys who have only one thing on their mind - their dicks. If you are in chat, then join the general topic of conversation, the women will take much more notice of you if you're not afraid to chat in the public forum - they will think you're a friendly kind of bloke. When you start whispering or inviting to msn right away its considered rude (by most people). You wouldnt walk up to a woman in a bar who's chatting to a group of people and try to drag them away from the group or you might end up with a kick in the balls from the women and a black eye from the blokes - this is no different.
So in short, be friendly and respectful - the more personal and intimate chat will follow - and from there, a far greater chance of hooking up.
Ok ladies, have at it, let the fellas (and even other women) know what would get your attention :)
Oh, and ladies, if you see a guy complaining in chat - direct them to this blog :)
If you get inbox messages from blokes who contradict "what you want", copy and paste the following code into a reply to their message:
1a href="/blogs/nux/what_women_want.shtml"2 click here 1/a2 and have a read.
But change the 1's to open arrow brackets < and the 2's to closed arrow brackets >
Tick the little box "save as template" and give it a name before you hit "send" then you can select the template whenever you want to direct people to this blog, to learn about what women want :)
Give it a try !
Here's some screenshots to show you how:
First hit reply, then do this....
Then hit SEND, they will recieve a message that looks like this:
And next time you want to reply a message, you just hit reply, then select the saved template, like this:
As you can see the code will load automatically, and you can then just hit SEND :)
Here's some other blogs you might enjoy :)
Posted 2:36PM, 9/Jun/10
