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nux
Fuck !
As a parent of 2 teenaged girls i can only begin to imagine what you're going through, Miss Pagan :(
I've had to pick both my girls up from the hospital due to being too pissed - its a heartbreaking experience, not to mention frustrating, because as you said, you cant help but feel somewhat responsible. But at the end of the day, they are their own people, and you cant make every choice for them - they will inevitably make some poor choices in life - it's our job as parents to be for them when they stumble.
I really have no advice for you, other than to say don't blame yourself. She came home to you for help right? that means she loves you, and respects you as a parent.She needs love and comfort - talk to her, always....and always listen. Absorb everything she tells you and just give her your opinion - without getting cranky at her....tough to do i know, but i believe support will be the best path.
Best wishes to you all.

Brunswick Heads, 2483, NSW -- Blog entries: 95 -- Comments: 1108

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Mudgeeraba, 4213, QLD -- Comments: 6

Luv2hf
Wow this is the first blog that i've read through all everyone comments. Very interesting :)
Thanks Pagan! be strong and remember if you want to cry. i'll give you my shoulder to cry on. **BIG HUGZ to you**

Northbridge, 6000, WA -- Comments: 2

kezza363
well I don't know if you can see this but I will give it a go!!! I feel very much for you Pagan and the trouble you are having with your daughter. It is one of the many nightmares a parent and child can go through. It is great that your daughter felt she could come to you in her crisis and felt that you would be there for her. It is right you must be a fantastic mother!!!

I agree with a lot of things everyone has said and all I the only thing I can add is just let her know that no matter what, you are there for her and then hopefully the problem will be halved as they say.... a problem shared is a problem halved. The other thing I will add is make sure you keep the lines of communication open no matter what.

I have a girlfriend whose adult daughter quite often talks to me because her mother often looses it with her and can't see her point of view!!! Just try and love that is all we can do and hope that our morals and lessons have instilled in then have worked and they use them.

Melbourne, VIC -- Blog entries: 6 -- Comments: 1430

beginners
hey pagan your parenting skills were obviously great. the fact she came to you when she know she couldnt do it herself says it all be strong x x

Gawler, 5118, SA -- Comments: 179

beginners
it probably wasnt easy for her/him to come home and ask for help but your child knew you would be the only person that would still love her/him now matter how screwed up life was. you have done a great job keep going x x

Gawler, 5118, SA -- Comments: 179

Pagan
Just want to say thankyou to everyone for your comments, they mean so much to me. I don't feel so alone anymore. You guys are the greatest. xxxx

Swan Hill, 3585, VIC -- Blog entries: 32 -- Comments: 157