Hey guys, long time no talk.

Well it's happened.

I found him.

A beautiful soul, musical, politically motivated, clever, charming, sexy and all those other things I wanted. We met online here and we met for real in Sydney.

We joined the circus for the avo and had a lesson on the Trapeze for Valentines Day. It was such a great first date. Check out the photos...

So to all of you beautiful people who... full post

Well hello to the humidity, balmy nights and flies...yes I am in QLD again!

I had great plans of spending a lazy day at the beach, no kids, no cooking and no plans really.

I was telling everyone how wonderful it'd be and how carefree...but the only person I was tricking was me.

I was palming my kids off because none of my former "friends" had contacted me and the kids for christmas, only... full post

So for the last nine or so months my ex has hassled the crap out of me to

"get it together and move back in"

"stop being psycho"

"get back together before it's too late"

(I thought it was too late the moment I moved out, as this wasn't something I did on the spur of the moment, it was a few years in the planning!) and other stupid, half assed comments.

But recently... full post

How can I find a politically motivated, intelligent guy who's fit, healthy and funny! with blond hair, blue eyes, a big dick and....I really need to stop thinking about all the things I want in a man don't I!?!

Well yes I have had a bit of time to think about the kind of bloke I want. More to the point I have had a lot of time to think about what I don't want.

I don't want a bloke that has a few too... full post