Posted by talkandtouch at 9:29PM, 1/Dec/07.
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So for the last nine or so months my ex has hassled the crap out of me to

"get it together and move back in"

"stop being psycho"

"get back together before it's too late"

(I thought it was too late the moment I moved out, as this wasn't something I did on the spur of the moment, it was a few years in the planning!) and other stupid, half assed comments.

But recently the unannounced visits, late night calls and other annoying habits have slowed down and now stopped. To the extent that the kids haven't seen him for a week. Which is pretty slack since he lives around 8km away and works in our suburb every other day!

I enjoyed the kids seeing him as he was pretty good fun for them and I would love him to see THEM more often. But when he came to visit it always seemed he was there to find out just what it was I was getting up to.

And my suspicions have been confirmed. The visits and calls have stopped because...he has a girlfriend. YEEEAAAHHH!

I would like to hug and kiss her for taking him off my hands, but I would also like him to remember his first, and most important obligation is to his children (who he used as a guilt trip for leaving "the kids need a father, kids should have two parents...blah blah bliddity blah!)

The power of the fanny is a wonderful thing, but guys, remember get the important stuff out of the way then dive in head first!