The replies i've had on ff are genuine and pretty cool (couldn't ask for more if i walked up to someone in a pub or at a party). ff's also only site i know of where the administrator is contactable. I’m really enjoying it, met some really great people. We rarely take the opportunity to thank you for creating such a great site. So this is one of those rare moments I guess where I say, "thanks!" It's a great little 'community' of members with a really good balance. I’m loving the site, met some great guys through here, just harder to find a willing woman like me though.  oh well half the fun is in the search.