Well if I knew exactly the kind of partner then
a) Life would be too predictable and
b) Would have gone out, found you and swept you off your feet by now
So may you can be surprising and spontaneous... Also..
Confident (but not overly - just secure within themselves), independent, balanced, active, healthy, normal & adventurous, non smoker, social drinker who has a view of the world formed from lifes experiences and maybe an element of passion but can express themselves with subtlety.