I am a quiet man and rather shy,i have had a hard life with many ups and downs and as such i tend to be anti social,i dont mean to be but i tend to get stressed around to many people,i would describe myself as a teddy bear with patches,i have a big heart and a giving spirit and i cant help but be honest about myself,my mates would say i am to honest,but i figure if people see me for who i am then they will accept the odd rough edge,after all everyone,we were all raised a certain way and exposed to different things that shaped the way we are now.

i like mafia wars on face book i like watching movies in the comfort of my own room i rarely got to the movies as theres just to many people and the chance to enjoy the movie is taken away.

i have been raised by my parents to have a great deal of respect for women,which is probly why i am still single cause i look at myself and think i am not good enough for any woman but i guess at some point we just have to start trying.

i love giving foot massages i hear women talk all the time about how they cant get a decent massage of any kind from their man well i enjoy giving them,a woman should be pleasured its what they deserve.

i like most music but i really go for techno and trance/dance music,cafe del mar and armin van buren are very good.i tend to have a nasty habit of picking one song and just listening to it over and over for a week,which my mates get very annoyed at,but its someone thing i enjoy so i aint about to stop just cause someone doesn't like it.

my only goals in life are to lose the few extra kgs and get fit and look after myself,i want to settle down and love and care for a woman,and spend the rest of my life enjoying her company,i have never had kids but i am more than open to having children,but i would prefer to get to know and build a bond before bringing children onto the scene.

And because of the way i was raised i am still a virgin,my parents were strict Christians and while i am no longer apart of that church,or that lifestyle i have simply not been in a relationship long enough to have ever experienced sex,and being that i was raised in a christian back ground i was raised to believe in no sex before getting married,of course now i am no longer part of that lifestyle so i dont care either way....but if people are gonna judge me or condemn me for being a virgin then you can all **** off,everyone was a virgin at some stage if you dont like it then just keep walking but dont go giving me attitude,otherwise you will get a mouthful back.

with that said i am just like everyone else,i just want to love and care for a woman and settle down and enjoy life,i am sure there must be a woman out there who wants a man like me,i am kind and gentle and soft,i just wanna enjoy the future and leave the past in the past,life is to short for worrying about forgotten chances.

i am definitely one of kind if there's another like me then i wanna meet him and see if hes doing any better than me,with that said i am respectful and kind i tend to be a little sarcastic at times but that's only cause i was raised in a big family and i was the youngest,i am honest and open with myself ask me anything and i will tell you,i guess a am some what self conscious but i have a few things to work on as most people do.please point me in the direction of the person around here whos perfect!!!........yeah i know there isn't anyone.

any woman with compassion and understanding is welcome to talk to me,i aint perfect,and the last time i checked no one was,looks are not that important to me whats important is whats on the inside,what kind of person are you.

my mind runth wild,candles in the bedroom,and me taking my time massaging her entire body,followed by me slowly kissing her over her entire body and then getting her off by whatever means come to mind and then making love very very slowly,fore play is important,it builds anticipation.

anything sci-fi,action,comedy,and i dont mind the odd chick flick just dont over do it.

trance/dance,armen van buuren,linkin park.pop rock the old stuff is fine but i prefer the modern stuff,generally i am open to most music except for rap and heavy metal to much of either just give me a headach.

not a huge fan of tv,i pretty much just watch whatever is on if i happen to be near the tv.

sci fi books but not really a book reader.

food is food i have a bit of a sweet tooth but then who doesent.