Sex, Lies & No Videotapes - I Hope ....

Updated 08 May, 13 - 16 Comments.

Where to start?? Well, 9mths on here & this 'young looking adventuress female with short dark hair, blue eyes, slim fit build, looking for fun - Open minded, discreet, interested in new experiences' has gained a better understanding of how the dating world is operating in this day & age. While technology has changed the way we will connect & communicate, the real life experience has not changed dramatically - mostly it is my attitude on how I deal with the experiences I have had during this time.

Yes, I did join FF hoping for some fun sexual experiences & who wouldn't when they had not been in a position to fulfill their desires for 9yrs due to several of lifes challenges. I was fortunate & found a 'good friend' early on here, as mentioned in a previous blog - it enabled me to gain confidence within myself & he is still a great person who can answer all my difficult questions - like 'Why did he cum so fast? Was it something I did in moving / heat / tightness?' & 'Do they really think once is enough?' Especially when in some cases, the build up through txts / emails has been amazing - you are left wet & wanting. Other cases can be minimal contact prior & when drinking with the person, it all seems good - conversation, their style & there is just something there, that gets you thinking - mmmm ....

Away from FF I have continued my sensual discovery journey by fulfilling a fantasy I had thought about for ages 'balconies' - the Carnival Spirit will never seem the same again, hopefully there is no video tape out there. Another had been to experience time with females / couples, so being the brave, adventuress female I am - I went to a Adults Nightclub 'swingers' by myself. Besides having a pool table (easy to get talking / drinking when playing a game), the females were totally in control of accepting who, when & what. This club also ended up being my 'Plan B' if Brisbane FF Drinks didn't work out, had dress, the 'fm' highheels & of course, a bottle of red in my car ready. I have learnt that guys still like to do their own chasing & will put in the effort when they want, as well as making sure you have their number - especially after awesome public sex near a beach & too many highrise apartments.

There are many real people on this site that I have met & consider them friends, others that I msg / chat / txt with that I hope to meet at some point & can't wait for the amazing coversations we will have over drinks as I continue on my journey this year around Australia. My life experiences have allowed me to get to this moment in time & I am loving all the new experiences, whether they be G or R rated.

Are you living your life the way you deserve to?? ;)

  • Marcus850 - 17 Feb, 22
    Aldavilla, NSW, AU

    Hi sweetie I'm kinky and I love the idea of eating out both your warm sexy hot holes I am happy to help you make your fantasys reality. I'm easy going and I love to please let me be your friend will hot hard an passionate kinkiest sex I have a I hardon think about being inside you having fun with your fantasy to get fucked deep over and over again an licking, I am a local Kempsey guy I'm bisexual and have a funny opened mine and I love the idea of being a friend to you . I am interested in making memories and having fun going out or just chilling at home and have a meal with you. I really like the things you have said it is a real turn on your very nice and know what you want, I'm so turned on by you I have to be inside you mouth deeply and have a fantasy to get fucked deep in my Ass with a strapon and I love the idea of you being the sexy gorgeous women to do it. Are you interested in the chance to be able too fucked an get fucked deep in the hottest ways , I think you deserve to have everything done to you how you want it .I will be waiting for you to reply we could go to places that are so sexy hot an passionate kinkiest sex i Will make you shudder with many orgasms i have to cum for you in your gorgeous mouth and I love you to kiss me so I can get that sweet taste of you mouth and my warm cum I will give you a something to remember. I am so positively Shaw we'll be happy to be friends with the most hottest benefits and have fun doing things together and for each other in a opened minded way to be able to say whatever you want to with out judgements about it .I want you to be the sexual hot women who is telling me how want to get fucked an get me to do things with you want to meet all of your sexual needs to be able to say whatever you want to do things that you have said before I am not just for sex I have to be opened minded and I love the idea of being a friend who is your equal a friend who is always there to talk to. I'm interested in the chance to be able to have a serious relationship between the two of us. I would like to do things slow and I love the idea of being a friend an then have a partnership between the two of us. I am a very nice and honest and respectful of the other person, I am a old school gent shilvery is a blef of mine o.k. I will give you the respect you deserve. I will give you that orgasm you need I want you to cum for me while I'm eating out your pussy and Ass out ok. I wanted you to know that I am interested in making memories and having fun going out or just chilling at homeeating you I think we are ment to be friends and have a fantasy to get. Shit I've been going on for ages. Sorry didn't know that I am into the idea of being a friend to you so much xx I hope to hear from you sweetie ok,, kisses allover you by gorgeous

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  • 1958me - 29 Mar, 18
    Casula, NSW, AU

    Such a refreshing read. Yes there are some of us who want mutual fun, without the fear of being used. If it leads to a relationship, then that’s great but both need to want that.

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  • (Private Profile) - 11 May, 13
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    Love your attitude and your writing.

    Looking forward to hearing more about the pool table.

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  • jarfish87 - 11 May, 13
    Mount Louisa, QLD, AU

    lets talk

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  • (Private Profile) - 11 May, 13
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    What a great blog to read and I'm do happy that you are living the life you want and fulfilling your desires along the way ... I'm very much the same and am living my desires as they come across my path .... Look forward to reading more soon gorgeous ...

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  • (Private Profile) - 11 May, 13
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    You go girl! This was a great read. Love to see someone sucking the marrow out of life's bones. Better to regret something you have done than something you haven't done.

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  • (Private Profile) - 09 May, 13
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    Still in my stall pattern stuck in neutral. I try not to let it affect my interaction with others and I feel it is much better than avoiding contact which has been my goto in the past.
    So watch out! I'm like a rider in a motocross race just waiting on that flap to go down!

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  • (Private Profile) - 08 May, 13
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    I am still finding the courage and trying to navigate my way back into the world of dating after many years off the scene. I fear coming on too strong, or not strongly enough. Like you, I find that things have not really changed as far as the 'mating game' goes. Just the ways in which we communicate are a little different. All the other confusing things are still there though. I wish I had a friend who could explain some of it to me.

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    • passport2go - 08 May, 13
      Karuah, NSW, AU

      I would say relax, drink in hand & with a smile, answer msgs / questions & see where it takes you.. If it feels good or right, well who knows, it's all your decision, isn't it??

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      • Jr145 - 04 Jul, 20
        Gawler, SA, AU

        Vhu

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