hi
why is it that your mate ends up with the person yourve had and loved for 10 years ive never argued with her and always bought her flowers every second day since we met
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(Private Profile) - 14 Mar, 13
-The way I see it any relasionship is about trust well that must be gone !! She was proberbly bored with u! There are plenty of ladies who are looking for a nice guy !! Time to leave things in the past !! Move on but u have to learn to stand ur ground doesn't mean a shouting game !! Good luck mate
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(Private Profile) - 14 Mar, 13
-Dont take her out for dinner. Tell her to go buy her own. She fkd you over with your mate........your mate ffs!!
She's back until she finds the right one.
Throw her shit on the front lawn and say if it aint gone tomorrow its going to the tip.
She will do it again.
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(Private Profile) - 13 Mar, 13
-You have to ask yourself if you are prepared to go through all that heartache again, because I believe she'll cheat again...as for your friend, well he's not any guiltier than she is...
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nux (FF Host) - 13 Mar, 13
Brunswick Heads, NSW, AUI agree with some comments here, but not others. I definately agree to tell your mate to go play in traffic - he's a dog. But i don't believe you should have to man up or change who you are. Be yourself, it's been good enough for 10 years, and if all of a sudden she wants you to change, then tough titties for her.
We should never have to pretend to be something we're not.
A little sucking up from her should be on the cards though.756 Comments - 117 Blog Posts
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smiles01 - 10 Mar, 13
Bunbury, SA, AUhmmm now shes back dunno what happened but all she said was she was so sorry so im not gonna let 10 years go that easy so ill take her out for dinner tonight all i want to see at the moment is for her to smile so hopefuly taking her to dinner will do that . Thanks guys for listening and replying to my worries
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smiles01 - 09 Mar, 13
Bunbury, SA, AUshe says because she wanted me to get angry with her sometimes and i never did in that 10 years and she realy hated it when i told her new boyfriend to look after her i think she wanted me to get angry but yeah thats all oh well im better off alone and to just have friends but i will miss giving her flowers sorry to spill my stuff out
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(Private Profile) - 10 Mar, 13
-I recently separated, one of the reasons for our split was we didn't communicate very well.
One of the symptoms of this was we didn't fight.
It sounds weird but to vent your frustrations is actually very normal and important in order to know what the other person is feeling deep down about things. Instead we just bottled these things up and kept on. We were aware of this and we have addressed it several times over the years but I don't think either of us cared enough about the relationship to fight for it.
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(Private Profile) - 09 Mar, 13
-Next questions to ask yourself...
Is there a girl you know already who is paying attention to you but you haven't noticed?Is it better to love or to be loved?
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So how did dinner go?
Sometimes people fuck up, and realize that, and will give anything to get back what they had. Sometimes it's not.
Ask yourself. Are you in love with her and want to be with her, or is it the thought of being in love with her and you don't know how to be alone?
As she found out, there are other people out there who can give you what you need/want.
What do you REALLY want?
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This is a good point about thought of being in love.
I have been thinking lately if that is why I got married- It was the thought of someone loving me and I was scared of losing it.