10 Free Chat Room Flirting Tips

Flirting is much easier in the "real world", where we can rely on our bodies and our facial features, as well as our words, to help us exhibit our flirtatious side. However, in the disembodied world of the adult chat room, all we have to rely upon are our words and possibly our web-cams to help us in our flirtations.

• Be daring. One of the great things about flirting in a chat room is the fact that you are relatively anonymous. This should allow you to feel more confident more quickly and open the door to be daring in your flirtations. Speak your mind and do so with feeling. Confidence is a powerful aphrodisiac, so the more confident you are about saying what you feel the more attractive you are to others.
• Use emotional words and emoticons. When you flirt online in a free chat room, you need to use emotional words and emoticons to help you be more effective. For example, when you like someone and you want to let them know, you might type "sighing" or "smiling" before or after your message. Or, you might use emoticons that wink, smile, or blow kisses to help convey your flirty message.
• Be light and easy. Flirtation in online chat can be mired down if you are emotionally low and use the chat room to simply whine about your long day and difficult job. It is much more appealing and flirtatious to show interest in others, laugh, give compliments and enjoy the adult chat community.
• Make the first move. If you show that you are willing to take a risk and approach someone online, it can be very appealing to the person you are approaching. Showing this kind of initiative is sexy and can lead to private chat or more. So, take the first step and introduce yourself.
• Give compliments. When you are in an adult chat room, there is a lot going on and many people are talking simultaneously. To get an edge in flirtation, look for opportunities to give compliments to people you are interested in.
• Be original. There is nothing that is more of a turn-off in online chat flirting than using trite pick-up lines. It is unoriginal and boring. Try to use language and ideas that are natural and spontaneous instead of something others made up eons ago.
• Be aggressive but not forceful. If the person you're trying to flirt with is not interested, don't force it or stalk them. Don't continue trying to get their attention after it becomes clear they are not interested. It looks desperate.
• Invite someone to private chat. If you begin a conversation in an adult chat room and you want to talk privately, a great flirtation device is to ask them if they'd like to go to private chat. This is a clear and defining flirtation technique that will take things to the next level.
• Share your personal stories. Once you get into private chat, you want to continue to flirt but take things slow. A virtual strip show is much more interesting then skipping the cyber foreplay.
• Use your web-cam. Once you get to know a person, a final flirting device that can seal the deal is to ask them to join you in instant messaging and turn on that web-cam to give them a look at your sexy physique. Be sweet and straightforward while web-camming and continue to flirt gently until you're ready for more.