The replies i've had on ff are genuine and pretty cool (couldn't ask for more if i walked up to someone in a pub or at a party). ff's also only site i know of where the administrator is contactable. I’m loving the site, met some great guys through here, just harder to find a willing woman like me though.  oh well half the fun is in the search. I’m really enjoying it, met some really great people. We rarely take the opportunity to thank you for creating such a great site. So this is one of those rare moments I guess where I say, "thanks!" It's a great little 'community' of members with a really good balance.