I am separated, but still live in the same house. I can visit not bring home. She doesn't I doesn't either. it's a respect thing.

I am 59, 3 children, life is OK, but I want to feel close to a person, just the contact would be great.

Someone who doesn't want to invade my life. I can't do that to my ex or my children (maybe after a while(, someone who nwants to be intimate and spend good times together.