The replies i've had on ff are genuine and pretty cool (couldn't ask for more if i walked up to someone in a pub or at a party). ff's also only site i know of where the administrator is contactable. Great site really like the effort you go to to make sure the members are real! We rarely take the opportunity to thank you for creating such a great site. So this is one of those rare moments I guess where I say, "thanks!" It's a great little 'community' of members with a really good balance. I’m loving the site, met some great guys through here, just harder to find a willing woman like me though.  oh well half the fun is in the search.