I am a professional man looking to regain that spark and passion that has disappeared from my life. I am married - so why the stray? Mental illness, and the drugs used to treat it, has left my other half unable to give life an excitement , a sexiness that I want.

I am no swinger - more the discrete average man who wants to enjoy life with someone who understands and also needs an extra dimension to their lives.

Enjoy a chat over a wine, with a fun undercurrent of intimate possibilities? Or desire something more, more passionate and intimate, than what is normally part of your life? Keen to keep the confidences, and to know that discretion and respect is guaranteed? Or just wonder if forbidden fruit does taste any sweeter.