Hey there, I am a local guy who needs someone to talk to and have a one on one friendship. I have been through a difficult time with 'bagage'and need to move forward but scared to have a relationship until we confirm thats what we want togeher. If not, lets have some fun anyway

Refer above. If you want to lay down laws like Í don't want to have sex in the first two dates'then dont visit me. Hey, it may not happen but don't use sex as a 'réward''