The replies i've had on ff are genuine and pretty cool (couldn't ask for more if i walked up to someone in a pub or at a party). ff's also only site i know of where the administrator is contactable. I’m loving the site, met some great guys through here, just harder to find a willing woman like me though.  oh well half the fun is in the search. I’m really enjoying it, met some really great people. Thanks heaps, pretty awesome site you've got going here... Love it to bits :D