The replies i've had on ff are genuine and pretty cool (couldn't ask for more if i walked up to someone in a pub or at a party). ff's also only site i know of where the administrator is contactable. I’m loving the site, met some great guys through here, just harder to find a willing woman like me though.  oh well half the fun is in the search. Great site really like the effort you go to to make sure the members are real! On the day i joined ff also joined another site (not oz based). was gonna decide in 1 month & go with which ever one was best. fyi.... ff's already taken the flag.