The replies i've had on ff are genuine and pretty cool (couldn't ask for more if i walked up to someone in a pub or at a party). ff's also only site i know of where the administrator is contactable. On the day i joined ff also joined another site (not oz based). was gonna decide in 1 month & go with which ever one was best. fyi.... ff's already taken the flag. I’m loving the site, met some great guys through here, just harder to find a willing woman like me though.  oh well half the fun is in the search. I just thought I'd say, this a magnificent site! Met some really beautiful people and made some amazing friends all within a month and a bit so far. Best connection site on the net easily!!