Consensus is about what you can live with and what you can't. It is not about compromising on what is truely important. A relationship is not about belonging to someone else or doing everything togeather.
You can lead a gifthorse to water but don't try to look it in thr mouth when it is down or it may come back to bite you.
I like the country and good live music. Rap is a second rate poet accompanied by an adulterated version of someonelses music.

Age isn't a big hang up, nor is appearance or size. Every older guy would like a younger girl and there can be great fulfillment from such a relationship but only if there is maturity. Similarly I am not after a mother and I have not yet ossifed totally. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and it is often in the eyes. Playboy models are eyecathing but unassailable and often. Shared interests are important.

Not rap (did you guess). Matchbox 20 to the Eagles. Bach to the Beetles. Chillie Peppers and Chisel. All that matters is that it is 'good'. Open to new sounds

Tom Clancey, John LeClare, Ellis Peters. Adventure or Suspense

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