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Male, 48 years old

Canberra, ACT, AU, Australia

About Me

I'm a decent guy (hope so anyway), intelligent, respectful and laid back. I'm recently separated and seeking a special friend or an occasional distraction.

I'm in reasonably good shape but so not a buff dude. More cerebral than beef-cake.

Btw: happy to chat and will always respond but won't initiate. Not that I'm shy or backwards in coming forwards in life. Just have enough female friends to not want to be one of those guys. Also happy to shoot the breeze without expectations so feel free to message.

My Kind of Partner

Seeking someone who is fun, uncomplicated and independent. Someone comfortable in their own skin. Passionate would be ideal but not looking for a life partner. Way too soon for that. Not really a transactional sex kind of guy either (at least I don't think so) so someone curious and open-minded but not too impersonal.

Btw: I do get that we are all complicated and no one is truly comfortable in their own skin. Really just said that to sound windswept and interesting.

BTB: when I say passionate that's not code for 'scream at me randomly and call me names'.

BTROB: when I say open minded that's not code for 'let me crap on your belly while you watch Partridge family reruns'


Yes please. I'll have one of those

Favourite Movies

None of your bloody business. Such an intrusive question. I vote to replace this with 'fears and pet peaves'...

Favourite Music

Bit of a punk rock fan but pretty open minded. Have an old bay city rollers album that I Iinherited somewhere down the line. Not that open-minded.

Favourite TV Shows

Brooklyn 99

Killing Eve

Game of thrones

The one in my bedroom

Mind hunters

Jessica Jones

Open to suggestions...

Favourite Books

Heart of darkness, to kill a mockingbird, pride and prejudice, Importance of being Earnest, where's wally. love poetry but other peoples not my own. have tried of course but it all ends up a bit fatuous...

Favourite Food

Mediterranean, Thai, Vietnamese are favorites but I like all cuisines. Haven't tried dog food so am maybe less adventurous than I think. Tried horse tartare once though. Didn't know until after I'd finished and hate to admit it but damn it was good.

Favourite Sports

Afl, pilates, people watching, Dalmatian (oh hang on that's 'spots')

Favourite Hobbies, Games

I collect toe nail clippings, acerbic comments and cheese on roast recipes. I don't play games. More of a voyeur (read Monday morning quarterback).

Favourite Podcasts

Russia if you're listening, conversations, the party room,

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Does anyone ever do this well? I am honest and open, discreet and a bit cheeky. Love to meld minds as well as other bits, so big on conversations. Not fond of the shallow or superficial.


Looking for some NSA fun, love a strong woman who has an inner fire in the bedroom, any fun is good fun


im easy going always interesting never do the same thing twice only live once so come on live it up


recently seperated, not sure what I want. just looking to see whats out there. something fun nothing serious just yet


hey drop me a line if your needs some extra assistance ;) call me anytime you feel like hooking up


extra extra read all about it, new to the game but keen how bout it? And yes......I did just do that!!!


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