Not your typical male. Not into golf, drinking, cards, gambling, cars and other pissing competition or bloke things. Not gay either. Diverse range of interests from surfing, and bush to fitness, health and internet marketing. Eclectic taste in music mostly pre-80's, but going into classical, particularly piano (Beethoven) and over to New Age (Goodall. Oldfield). Prefer sensitive, or spiritual aspects of literature and film.
Could meet initially for coffee, a look around the shops, (more interested in Jag and Jeep to wear than drive). Perhaps share a meal (literally to keep serve size realistic) or movie to talk about afterward.
I want lots of friends who are female, (or balanced couples). A few of these will form into close mates.
Sex? Intimacy is more important. The intimacy of opening up to feelings triggered by a compassionate film or moving music can set the scene for sex. But, it rarely happens the other way, hot sex doesn't imply intimacy.

Basically, a person who has found herself and is able to share that with someone. Independent but values companionship. At peace with her own company but enjoys being together. Individual but proud of the person she is with. Understands and appreciates the fundamental differences in gender.

Waking up in the morning and wanting to be there.

Probably A Summer Love or Notebook. Others include Phenomenon, Rudy, Walk the Line, Ghosts, Mrs Doubtfire,

All time favourite Soldier by Harvey Andrews (if you don't cry then it's over between us). Pretty much anything with good acoustic guitar and vocals (CSNY, Eagles). Rock blues (Mayall, Clapton) and forays into classical Beethoven, Mozart, Bach, and Vivaldi.

Watch very little TV. Some documentaries (Man vs Wild). Like to watch Essendon win on a Friday night). Like an occasional one day or 20-20 but not upset if I miss it. Love to watch Le Tour de France not just for the race but for the spectacular scenery, cultural commentary and Gabriel Gate's regional cuisine.

All time: Man's Search for Meaning, Victor Frankl. Angel and crystal books, Doreen Virtue, Diana Cooper, and 'The Thiaboua Abduction" and 'We are One'. Books on gardening, particularly design, and cooking. Interesting stories of human struggle and triumph.

Simple 'peasant' food or the complex blending of flavours in a good stir-fry. Food close to its origins and in season. Greek, Lebanese, Italian meats, salads and side dishes or the subtle taste sensations of stir fry and other complex blends. The last time I went into Maccas it was for a coffee and only because my car battery was flat and I couldn't stop anywhere else.

Surfing. AFL (when Essendon wins), some cricket. Motorcycle racing (Isle of Man. Water sports - Iron man, triathlete etc. Marathons with a tight finish.

Surfing but I want to open up the boundaries and explore life, particularly nature, good food, fitness and health, and good, enjoyable company.