Fit 50+ (obvious a bit+) who does a variety of things in a lot of places. Big in some ways without BMI problems.

Bit less sex than I need (at least daily) so when I found myself on the am grade 1 school school run (do this when in town) assessing the mothers as will/won't thought there has to be a better way.

Flexible on timing

Need a bit more than they are getting and want some variety