Hi,

My name's Ian. I'm 41, I come from New Zealand and I lived in Japan for a long time but now I live in Brisbane.

I'm a nice guy, educated, lots of life experience and with a good job. I've done lots of traveling, mostly in Asia and Europe. I like to read, jog, exercise, go hiking/camping and play the guitar.

I'm in pretty good shape thanks to exercising. I'm uploading photos so that you can see what I look like. I like a drink, but don't usually have more than a couple. I don't smoke or take any drugs.

In sexual matters, I love to have good sex that leaves us both exhausted and sweating by the end. I'm not weird, and not pushy either. Just having a good time.

I'm looking to meet a nice lady, firstly for short meetings for coffee, and then...we'll see what develops. I'm not worried about body types, but a pleasant personality is good. Someone over 35, who avoids noisy clubs, likes to read books, has travelled a bit and likes good food and wine. Married or single will be fine.

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