If you are looking at this, we may already be in the same boat. Simply looking first for a friend and see where we go from there. I find it mentally stimulating to have an ongoing conversation with a like minded individual, past the sheet covers.

Have you seen a rough diamond? It looks just like a stone. Everyone can be a rough diamond that sparkles brilliantly inside. As much as mind reading fascinates me, a conversation is probably the best way to find that spark. You can't tell what's inside if you don't ask.