Tied down BUT allowed to have extra fun on the side, from time to time.

Discreet hook-ups is the plan and my mistress friend may want to play, with the right woman if thats an option.

A lady who is comfortable in herself is always great.

No particular preference but perhaps wouldn't mind something a little different to what I already have. I.e. a little curvy and perhaps even a red head ....I don't know ;)